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Slow Down Mama. Chores Can Wait, but Life Doesn’t.

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Hey Mama,

I see you there looking down at your phone thinking about the next thing on your to-do list. Your kids are having a blast climbing trees or splashing in the water.

You take a look up long enough to say “good job honey,” or something similar, but did you realize you’re missing out on creating some lasting memories?

Let’s be honest, are they going to remember their mama with her face in her phone over her splashing along with them? No.

YEM slow down mama

 

So many of us have such a hard time stepping away from our “to-do’s” that we forget whats most important. Go play with your babies. Climb with them. Take them on a hike. Have a splash fight. They will remember that.

We live such busy lives that sometimes we need reminded. We need reminded that time is passing us by and our children are growing up.

What are they going to  remember about you when they’re grown? Keep that in mind next time your little one asks you to help them build a sand castle or be a customer at their mudpie restaurant.

I forget this myself at times and need a reminder every once in a while too:

I know you’re busy but this is my message to you: Slow down, Mama. Chores can wait. LIFE doesn’t wait. Live it now with your babies. 

 

We all know you’re a wonderful mom, but sometimes too  much is asked of you. You’re you so you take it all on. Step away from it today and go play. Go dance silly with your kids. Go play fairies. what ever they want to do, do it with them. They cherish your attention more than anything; you’ll see it in their smiles and giggles. And I know you cherish them even more chores can wait. Message to mom. Slow down Mama.

Please, set your list aside this afternoon, you won’t regret it.

I wish I was reminded of this more before we chose to buy an RV and travel full time. Life is so much more simple now and I’m finally able to relax and realize that nothing is more important than spending time with my children. If you’re interested in the simple lifestyle we’ve adopted, you can read about it here, or follow us on our adventures on Instagram!

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You Know You’re a Crunchy Mom When…

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So, you hear that term “crunchy” again, and you’re wondering what exactly it means? Well, Urban Dictionary defines a crunchy mom as a

“Mother who supports homebirth, breastfeeding, baby wearing, cloth diapering, co-sleeping, gentle discipline, etc. One who questions established medical authority; tends to be vegetarian and/or prepare all-organic foods.”

I’m a self-proclaimed earth-loving, organic-eating mama myself, and I’ll proudly share the “crunchy” title with all of the other amazing mamas out there who believe in natural living!

Want to find out if you’re crunchy too, and have a little laugh while you’re at it? Check out these other crunchy mom blogger’s ideas of what it means to be a crunchy mom!

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We Co-Sleep

We Co-Sleep, and I’ll Tell You Why….

We Co-Sleep at Our Home.

We co-sleep

Yep. Our whole family squishes into one bed every night. It didn’t start out that way, and in fact before having children I was completely against the idea.

After becoming a mother of two, it seemed like there was always a little one sleeping next to me at night. I always just pinned it on the fact that I just can’t say no when a sweet little face asks if they can sleep with their Mama. Or when one of them wakes up in the middle of the night and crawls into my bed to find their place between my arms.

Honestly, it was a goal of mine to get them sleeping in their own beds soon, until last night…

I had just finished reading them their bedtime story, and Miss Three had fallen asleep sucking her thumb. Mr Five cuddled up to me, and turned to look at his sister with his expression so sweet and caring. He smiled slightly, and said “She’s so sweet, isn’t she mama?” I replied by whispering, “You know, you can give her a goodnight kiss on the cheek if you’d like.” His smile grew bigger, and he leaned over and softly rubbed his nose on her face, and then kissed her on the cheek as she continued to suck her thumb.

He then said, “She never lets me do that… I want to listen to her heart,” while placing his ear tightly to her chest. He whispered, “It’s beating Mama, that means she’s healthy. My sister’s healthy.”

He kissed her a few more times on the cheek, and then cuddled himself up in the blankets and dozed off while watching his sissy sleep.

Because of last night, I’ve realized this…

You Know What? Co-Sleeping is Okay.

Yes. I said it, and I’m certain many people will disagree. But for our family it works. I appreciate those special moments we share as we all fall asleep together. Our children feel comfortable; they feel safe.

Just as we believe in letting them learn at their own pace, and try new things at their own pace, we have decided that they can move to their own beds when they are ready. We won’t be sharing those precious moments forever, and if it is working for us why change it because others don’t agree with it? Co-sleeping actually has several positive benefits that many may not realize as well, including security, closeness, and ease of nursing.

Yes our kids can be bed hogs, and yes, I may have been startled awake by a foot to the face a time or two. Knees and elbows in my back are a regular occurrence as well, but the benefits outweigh the negatives for us at this time.

If you are considering co-sleeping with your child, I would definitely advise purchasing a co-sleeper (affiliate) during the time they are tiny babies. I do agree that co-sleeping while you are an extremely exhausted new parent can be unsafe, but as your children get a little older and they want to snuggle with their Mama or Daddy, I see no problem with that.

Soak up those sweet cuddles while you can!

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Nature Scavenger Hunt Printable for Kids

Our kids LOVE doing nature scavenger hunts when we go on nature hikes, or even just while playing in the backyard. We always love coming up with things for them to find that really get their little minds going. We enjoy them so much, that we decided to make a free nature scavenger hunt printable for kids to share!

Nature Scavenger Hunt for Kids Free Printable Checklist

 

If your children are interested in learning about nature, check out our huge list of children’s nature books, or you could even do a simple nature activity  with the goodies you find from the scavenger hunt.

 

Nature Scavenger Hunt Printable

Download here—> Nature-Scavenger-Hunt-Printable

 

Nature Scavenger Hunt Printable

 

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